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How
to kiss your lover /Partner?
A
kiss is the most basic, yet most important step
– some say it's even more meaningful than sex
– to expressing feelings of affection between
a man and a woman. Since it is the most fundamental
aspect of a physical relationship, it is essential
that men learn the necessary etiquette when it
comes to kissing.
So, what is there to learn about how to impress
your woman?
Do
not Let Your Feelings Overtake You
There
is a saying that a man loses his senses after
four drinks and a woman loses hers after four
kisses. For women, creating a perfect mood for
a kiss is just as important, if not more, as the
perfect kiss. Men are less concerned about the
mood as they are concerned about the actual kiss.
That's why so many men make the most horrendous
mistake of forcing themselves into their respectful
lady to satisfy their desire and to express their
love. If you are truly serious about the perfect
kiss, then create the perfect mood first.
Do
not Rush
As
mentioned above, men are often led into thinking
that masculinity – strength, forcefulness, abruptness
– is what makes them man. Women may be weaker
than men in terms of physical strength, but when
they are determined that they will not give in,
no man can force them into kissing.
If you force your way into kissing, assuming that
she, too, is ready and is craving for it when
in fact she is not, you risk turning her off.
Don't rush and study her carefully. Listen to
what she says and watch how she moves until you
know it's the right time.
Watch
Your Tongue
You
love her desperately, but there is no sign of
such level of affection on her part. First, create
the perfect mood for the kiss. Second, target
her tongue. Women are especially sensitive to
a French kiss and when she feels the touch of
your tongue with her own, she feels that she has
given something so meaningful and valuable to
you.
At that moment, your tongue can mean the world
to her. There is no way that she cannot fall in
love with you.
Give
Her a Chance
You
will never succeed in kissing when it is a one
way play. There must be this subtle game of give
and take, which makes it all the more sweet and
mesmerizing. If you want to enjoy this game, give
her a chance to enter the game.
If you put your tongue inside her mouth and stay
there without knowing what to do – like a child
lost in amusement park – she feels the sudden
urge to take over the game.
Softness
Strength
is not the only thing that gives pleasure. You
must be soft and gentle when you kiss. Men often
make the mistake of giving into their own feelings
all too easily when they kiss, thereby making
woman feel like something is being forced into
her.
Be gentle and always watch how she is reacting.
Always control your tempo.
Close
Your Eyes
It's
not a rule, but you should always close your eyes
when you kiss. When you leave your eyes open,
you lose concentration and you might be led into
thinking about other things, which she will eventually
notice. Besides, wouldn't you naturally close
your eyes when you kiss?
Fresh
Breath
Now
matter how much she loves you, you are an immediate
turnoff when she is met by stinky breath at what
is supposed to be a very romantic and memorable
moment. Always carry mouthwash or gum – strawberry
candy is also good – for the perfect moment.
Be
Comfortable With Your Hands
If
it's your first kiss with her, you are very likely
to be awkward with your posture while you are
kissing. The most natural way is to put your hands
around her waist or her back.
practice
makes perfect
So
you've met the perfect moment and all you need
to do is to turn those few minutes into an eternity
for both her and yourself. We've all dreamed of
our first kiss and imagined how it's going to
feel, and most of us have already put that into
a test.
For
those who have not yet experienced the magic of
a first kiss, keep in mind that the aforementioned
advice is a definite asset.
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